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speaking Responsibly

September 6, 2010

speaking responsiblyThe social fabric of our country appears in our time to be fragile.  From multiple manifestations of increased xenophobia, to cultural and religious fragmentation, to hostile and vile political discourse, we seem increasingly unable to communicate with and trust each other to the minimal degree required for civil discourse and shared civic responsibility.  To some degree all of these symptoms appear related to a loss in the foundational disposition of trust, or what the spiritual tradition calls faith; without a basic level of trust, human society, much less human community, is not possible.   In order to have trust or faith in each other we must be able to believe in the truth of what the other says to us; we must inhabit a culture of truthfulness in speech and responsibility for our words.  The measure of responsible speech is not its efficacy but its honesty, its responsibility to those being addressed and to the Truth.  In our time it often seems that the value of speech is measured more by its manipulative success and financial effectiveness than by its veracity; for the most part there is no accountability or responsibility to the truth even for those whose voices dominate our airways and our public discourse day after day.  What difference might it make in our common life, if our public leaders, our journalists, and our media personalities of all political persuasions were held accountable for the truthfulness of their assertions?

    In the Sermon on the Mount as recounted in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus teaches:

You have heard that it was said to your ancestors, “Do not take a false oath, but make good to the Lord all that you vow.”  But I say to you, do not swear at all; not by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is his footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Do not swear by your head, for you cannot make a single hair white or black.  Let your “Yes” mean “Yes” and your “No” mean “No”.  Anything more is from the evil one. (Matthew 5, 33-37)

In our social lives, oaths are solemn and even religious acts.  At those moments where the very possibility of a shared social fabric and of human life in common are at stake, we ask each other to be honest and truthful by swearing before heaven, or earth, or our own life.  We do this because we recognize that there are limits to lying, dishonesty, and irresponsibility if a minimal level of trust and human community are to be maintained.  In civil society it is not a crime to lie, but only to lie under oath.  In the Kingdom that Jesus announces, however, we are responsible to the Author of Life for every word we utter.  Any word not grounded in the truth of things is from the evil one.  At all times, our speech is not to be a mode of manipulation and obfuscation but an expression of the Word from which we come.   Whenever we speak, we are responsible for our words both to those whom we address and to the One who is the Source of our speech.

    The Sermon on the Mount is not primarily a prescription for living but a description of the life of Christ in us.  One of the most significant indications of that life is our responsibility to the Truth in our speech and in our actions.  In his new book Ethics of the Word: Voices in the Catholic Church Today, James Keenan, SJ quotes the theologian Nicholas Lash:

To be human is to be able to speak.  But to be able to speak is to be answerable, responsible, to and for each other and to the mystery of God.  (p. 19)

To speak in the most distinctively human way, says Lash, is to be answerable and responsible for the truth of each word we utter.  Jesus reminds us that this duty of responsible speech is not occasional but rather universal, a universality of responsibility that makes oath-taking meaningless.  Although as limited human beings we shall never attain the fullness of the call to be responsible in speech, there are, on a daily basis, unending opportunities to practice this call. Every time we speak to others we stand before the call of Jesus and the summons of Reality to speak in truth.

    Prayer may be the experience by which we learn most fully the significance and the difficulty of being answerable and responsible in speech.  In prayer, we find ourselves speechless before the awesomeness of the Mystery in which we live and move and have our being.  In prayer we struggle to find an adequate expression of our truth before the one who is Truth.  This poverty of our speech reveals to us the depth of our responsibility to God and to and for all others.  In authentic prayer all glibness disappears; all performance ends.  Remaining in this difficulty and darkness purges our pretense, affectation, and self-promotion.  We may discover that we are mere infants struggling to utter words that correspond to a truth that calls us beyond ourselves.  Perhaps at its core our cultural crisis of honesty and responsibility is a crisis of transcendence and prayer.

    Adrian van Kaam speaks of the need in every time and culture for communities of “value radiation,”  communities of persons who keep alive through commitment and practice the foundational values that at various times are in danger of disappearing.  In our current time of constant talk, opinion, seduction, and manipulation, it is imperative that there remain those who commit themselves to the practices of praying in the secret of their own solitude and speaking humbly, honestly, and responsibly.  Distinctively human life, life that remains open to and responsible to the Spirit of God, requires that our human capacity for speech remain connected to its Source, that it not lose its connection with the Way, the Truth, and the Life that our lives, and so our words, are meant to serve.


self-actualization

August 16, 2010

Self-actualization is a term that gained currency in our culture about half a century ago.  At first blush the concept appears benign enough: it appears to do no more than to reflect our innate drive to achieve our full potential, to bring to fruition our unique capacity for human flourishing,  Hence the dictionary definition: the realization or fulfillment of one’s talents and potentialities, esp. considered as a drive or need in everyone. (The New Oxford American Dictionary)

    The self-actualizing tendency would seem to be ideally suited for life in societies structured around competition.  Here, though, a different picture begins to emerge.  Is the so-called self-actualizer pursuing a path of inborn possibilities, or is s/he unwittingly bending to cultural imperatives that lead to loneliness and isolation?  The “promise” of self-actualization is slippery indeed, if in fact the search for one’s direction in life culminates in the exclusion of other people and the refusal of the mystery as it manifests itself in all dimensions and spheres of one’s existence. 

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Learning REVERENCE from the Psalms

August 2, 2010

Psalm 8 is a prayer-poem with which most of us can readily identify.  It is a psalm of praise and a profound recognition of the Sovereignty of God, based on a mode of presence that the greatness of creation, including the Psalmist’s own being, evokes.  Its theme is grounded in the truth of who God is and who we.  The experience of that relationship gives rise to the primordial human disposition of awe and the reverence which accompanies it. According to Fr. Adrian van Kaam:

Reverence is the flower of spiritualization.  Its source is the sacred fascination people experience in the presence of what transcends them.  Everything worthy of a person’s dedication receives meaning from its relatedness to that mystery which overwhelms well-disposed people in moments of silent contemplation and pure receptivity.  Unrelated to this mystery, experiences lose their radiance and fail to evoke reverence.  (Fundamental Formation, pp. 159-60)

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Learning  Wisdom from the Psalms

July 19, 2010

I’d like to begin with a story that a friend of ours, a Director of Novices of his religious community, would often tell.   A novice of his once said to him, and I’m sure it was more than one who did this, “I don’t get anything out of praying the psalms.”  Since the novice had been in the community for some time the Director knew him well.  And so his response to him was:  “I think you have difficulty with the psalms because you have difficulty receiving anything that is given to you.”  The Novice Director here was pointing to a lack, one I think we can all recognize to some degree in ourselves, of what Fr. Adrian van Kaam calls “transcendent openness.”  The depth of our encounter with the Psalms, and thus of their meaningfulness to us, depends on the level of our transcendent openness, our capacity in the moment to attune to, receive, and respond to new disclosures of the Spirit to us.

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MESSENGERS OF UNIVERSAL LOVE 

July 5, 2010

One of the obvious things about our world is that it is hurting. Wherever we turn we are confronted with a suffering and incomplete humanity. We may be especially surprised by the capacity of individuals and groups of persons or nations to inflict violence on others. And when we consider the already realized potential for evil and injustice, we may choose to look away, to try to forget the world with its overwhelming needs, and to evade our personal responsibility to minister to that world.

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Love of Neighbor and Transcendent Openness 

June 21, 2010

In the passage from the works of Oswald Chambers that is quoted for June 19 in My Utmost for His Highest, we read:  “If I am devoted to the cause of humanity only, I will soon be exhausted and come to the place where my love will falter; but if I love Jesus Christ personally and passionately, I can serve humanity though human beings treat me as a doormat.”    The longer one lives the more one identifies with the experience of Linus in Charles Schultz’s famous comic strip Peanuts:  “I love mankind; it’s people I can’t stand.”  The truth of the matter is that for all our attempts to love our neighbor as ourselves, to love not only our friends but also our enemies, there are many times when we don’t like the people around us very much.  There is little doubt that for most of us the attempt to love others who often seem to us to be careless, mindless, selfish, arrogant, and on and on is, at best, exhausting, if not impossible.   Recently, as I entered the security line at an airport for an eagerly anticipated trip home both stressed and tired from a daylong meeting, I found myself increasingly frustrated and agitated by the perceived incompetencies of the security personnel and the slowness and inattention of my fellow travelers.  Later, on the plane, I sat next to a young woman who proceeded to take off her shoes, cross her legs, and dangle her bare foot in front of me for much of, thankfully, only an hour or so flight.  By the time I arrived home, I was very tired and significantly agitated and angry.  And all this from relatively minor, if not perhaps totally subjective, affronts.  Commonplace experiences such as these are potent reminders of how difficult it is to practice the spiritual directives that call us to revere and love the other.

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PRESENCE AND GRATITUDE

June 7, 2010

The conflicting tendencies toward resentment and gratitude are often at war with each other in the human heart.  Even when the mind knows it should be grateful, resentful feelings tug and pull away from rational response.  Blind urges conspire and tempt one to trust in power rather than presence to remedy and heal the aching soul.  For millennia the developed spiritual systems of humanity have understood the dynamics at play within this psychological-spiritual polarity.  Resentment is a corrosive attitude which threatens our well-being, destroys reason and diminishes our capacity for enjoyment.  Gratitude is more like an inborn readiness to receive with open hands what is given in one’s reality. Resentment, the interloper, refuses; gratitude accepts.

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Hearing the Appeal of the Other

May 24, 2010

The first reading for the liturgy of Pentecost Sunday from the Acts of the Apostles (Acts 2: 1-11) relates in vivid and highly allusive scriptural imagery the gift of the Spirit.  It is, as in the creation account of the first chapter of Genesis, in the power of a mighty wind that the Spirit of God is manifest.  As in Genesis the creative Spirit of God brings light out of darkness and order out of chaos, so in Acts the arrival of Spirit brings inner light and  clarity to the darkness and confusion in those who find themselves living the experience of Jesus’ absence.   The second allusion is to the story of the Tower of Babel in Genesis 11:1-9.   In the Scriptural account of the fulfillment of Jesus’ promise, the action of Spirit involves the reversal of God’s punishment at Babylon.  The story of the Tower of Babel is, at its core, a reiteration of the story of the Fall.  In this mythic account, the dispersion of peoples, our inability to understand each other, is due to our refusal to accept the reality of our shared humanity and the limits of our being human.  As Adam and Eve fell prey to the temptation to “be as gods,” the people of Babylon similarly succumb to what Adrian van Kaam calls “inverted awe,” that is, they become awe-filled at their own capacities, specifically, their “technological” capacities.  They attempt to reach the heavens by building a tower, to claim by force what can only be received.  As a punishment, the Lord says to his divine cohort: “Come, let us go down there and confuse their speech, so that they will not understand what they say to one another.” (Gen. 11:7) In the second chapter of Acts, God’s Spirit comes down and reverses the punishment of Babel:  “Why, they are all Galileans, are they not, these who are speaking?  How is it then that we hear them, each in our own native language?”  (vs. 7-8)  We who receive the Spirit of God, given through Jesus, are restored to the depths of our common humanity and thus to our kinship as children of God.  With our disposition of awe restored to its proper Divine object and by that restoration our capacity to recognize and to live the will of God, we again speak the same language.

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Living in the Present

May 17, 2010

When she died early in the twentieth century Therese was only 24 years old.  In her short life she wrote an autobiography and a book’s worth of poems, served as novice mistress of her Carmelite community, and managed to “become a saint,” whether or not she would have considered herself to be one.  Her prayer-poem “My Song for Today” (excerpted above) reveals extraordinary focus on the present moment.  In the third stanza of the poem, for example, she declares: “To pray for tomorrow, oh no, I cannot! . . .”  Sufficient unto the day are the worries thereof.  For Therese the testing ground for faith was in the present, and she prayed that “her little boat” would be guided over the stormy waves in peace — just for today!

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THE NEW COMMANDMENT

May 10, 2010

In John’s Gospel, Jesus tells his disciples:  “Now is the Son of Man glorified, and God is glorified in him.  If God is glorified in him, God will also glorify him in himself, and God will glorify him at once. . . . I give you a new commandment: love one another.  As I have loved you, so you also should love one another.”  (John 13: 31-2, 34)  The acts of love that constitute each moment of the life, and now the impending death, of Jesus are acts of God.  So the “new commandment” is new only in its recognition of the source of the love whereby the Disciples are to love one another.  That is, their love for each other is the love of Jesus for each of them and through them to others.

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EMBRACING SOLITUDE

May 3, 2010

The poet and essayist W. H. Auden was insistent on the irreducibility of our solitude: “In the last analysis we live our lives alone.  Alone we choose, alone we are responsible.”  He bemoaned the fact that “so many people try to forget their aloneness, and break their heads and hearts against it.”  Being utterly alone is surely a fearsome thing; great reserves of energy may be expended in the service of keeping the experience at bay.  Emily Dickinson may have had dreaded aloneness in mind when she described the solitude of space, sea or even death as “society” compared to the “polar privacy” of solitary inwardness:

There is a solitude of space

A solitude of sea

A solitude of death, but these

Society shall be

Compared with that profounder site

That polar privacy

A soul admitted to itself –

Finite infinity.

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RESTORING THE JOY OF OUR YOUTH

April 26, 2010

In last week’s reflection on Hospitality and Homecoming, it was pointed out that Mary, in offering a space of hospitality for Jesus, recognizes “that in some way she herself is the guest, and that he who is coming is also the host whose hospitality she should be prepared to receive.”  Jesus offers the fullness of his presence, both before and after his death, to those who welcome him, who create a hospitable space for him.  And those who so welcome him discover that he to whom they have opened their lives becomes the host who welcomes them.  To receive Jesus without condition is at the same time to receive one’s own “inwardness in a new way.”  It is to know the freshness and newness of the present moment; it is to be restored to “the joy of our youth.”

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HOSPITALITY AND HOMECOMING

April 19, 2010

A recent but posthumous book by Henri Nouwen, Home Tonight: Further Reflections on the Parable of the Prodigal Son, opens with a reflection on Nouwen’s arrival at L’Arche Daybreak in 1986.  Unnervingly, Nouwen was confronted daily by one of the members in the group home, who always asked the same two questions of people: “So, where’s your home?” and “Are you home tonight?”  In her Introduction, Sue Mosteller writes that with his frenetic schedule Nouwen “very often had to falteringly explain to John that he would again be absent from the table that evening.”  Mosteller suggests that Nouwen, who came to Daybreak in search of a home, needed John’s constant reminders that he was on a journey ― home.  Nouwen had written earlier in his career that hospitality is “the creation of a space where the stranger can enter and become a friend instead of an enemy.” (Monastic Studies 10, 1974).  One is left with an impression of unrealized longings.

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STAY WITH US

April 12, 2010

It is Holy Saturday 2010. At the front of the small parish Church of St. Therese of the Child Jesus in the town of Kipushi, Democratic Republic of Congo, a large paschal fire is already burning as the members of the Congregation gather to celebrate the Easter Vigil.  They come dressed in bright, beautiful and celebrative colors and carrying the candles they have purchased in the small shops around town. They fill not only the benches of the Church but the many small plastic chairs that have been added along the sides of the church and down the main aisle, as well as into the foyer and out onto the front porch.  The Church is decorated with strings of colored and flashing lights, many hand cut and fashioned decorations, even an electric lantern that will flash with the other smaller lights during the singing of the Gloria.  In the excitement of meeting and conversation as friends and family gather, there is already not only an air of expectancy but a sense of deep life, love, and hope that already manifests the truth of Resurrection.

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EASTER

April 5, 2010

In The New Being Paul Tillich wrote: 

It is love, human and divine, which overcomes death . . .  Death is given power over everything finite, especially in our period of history.  But death is given no power over love. Love is stronger.  It creates something new out of the destruction caused by death; it bears everything and overcomes everything.  It is at work where the power of death is strongest. . . .  It rescues life from death. It rescues each of us, for love is stronger than death.

We thank the Rev. Brenda Bennett for her distilled reflections on the meaning of the paradigmatic events of Holy Week and Easter: 

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HOLY WEEK REFLECTION: LIFE AS IT IS

March 29, 2010

In his text Opening the Hand of Thought, the Zen master and Abbot Kosho Uchiyama writes that the term gosho or afterlife refers to “the life that arises when one clarifies this matter of death. It means knowing clearly just what death is, and then really living out one’s life. . . . As long as this matter of death remains unclear, everything in the world suffers.” (p. 8) As we enter this year’s celebration of Holy Week, we are once again drawn into the remembrance of and participation in the passion, death, and resurrection of the Lord Jesus. This week we turn our attention, in a focal way, to the reality of death and the mystery of the embracing of the human condition unto death by God in Jesus. We face death as an undeniable reality of human existence and openly await that clarification of its meaning in resurrected life that comes after that going through and “reproducing [in our lives] the pattern of his death.” 

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THE PROBLEM OF ACEDIA

March 22, 2010

For those who have adopted a regime of fasting, sacrifice and spiritual practice during Lent, the season may at some point provide an occasion of encounter with the demon of acedia.  The word has many meanings and perhaps as many applications.  Thomas Merton cites it as one of the main obstacles to contemplative prayer, but the term may be applied broadly to describe the host of interior difficulties that inevitably arise when we strive in earnest to grow and live spiritually.  According to Merton acedia, a condition of spiritual inertia, is marked by inner confusion, coldness and a lack of confidence.

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THE SERVICE OF RECONCILIATION

March 15, 2010

The liturgy of the Fourth Sunday of Lent draws us into what St. Paul clearly understands to be the core of his preaching: “the service of reconciliation.”  This message, as presented in 2 Corinthians, has two aspects.  The first is that reconciliation with God is “the work of God” through the life and ministry of Jesus Christ, and the second is that this reconciliation calls those who receive it into the “service of reconciliation” to all others.

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ASCETICISM AND RELAXATION

March 8, 2010

Although we do not ordinarily associate the practices of rest and relaxation with the ascetical mandates of Lent, scripture as well as the literature of the spiritual masters remind us that we are called to care for the body and mind as the temple of the Lord.  Even our efforts at renunciation are meant to restore bodily health and spiritual presence, enhancing at once our receptivity to the Spirit and renewing our relationship to the Divine.  An important part of our daily routine during Lent can therefore be found in the Lord’s invitation to us to come away and spend time alone with him.

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LENTEN PRACTICE: LECTIO DIVINA

March 1, 2010

As discussed in last week’s reflection, the Lenten call to conversion is a call not only to turn away from but to turn toward.  St. Paul, in the letter to the Romans, speaks of this as the living of a new life, born of a new consciousness. 

Do not model yourselves on the behavior of the world around you, but let your behavior change, modeled by your new mind.  This is the only way to discover the will of God and know what is good, what it is that God wants, and what is the perfect thing to do.  (Romans 12: 2)

     This renewal of mind comes from our growing identification with the mind of Jesus Christ (Philippians 2:5).  In this light, we repent of the degree to which we have lost our true mind, to the degree that we have come to live from a false mind or consciousness that has become dissociated from our spiritual identity.  In this way, the practices of Lent are aimed at our remembering who we most deeply are and to whom we most deeply belong.  Through the practices of Lent we seek to recover our identification with the mind of Christ.

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CONVERSION OF LIFE

February 22, 2010

The call to conversion of life is as old as human society.  In the Judeo-Christian tradition, conversion is strongly linked to atonement for wrong-doing and the need to repent and do penance for sin.  However, as Richard N. Fragomeni observes in The New Dictionary of Catholic Spirituality:

. . . in recent years a more comprehensive understanding of conversion has sought to include the full depth of biblical insight into the understanding of the process as a turning from and a turning toward.

This new understanding places the emphasis on the transformation of personality and on God’s gift of grace within the process.  Without denying the reality of sin and guilt, contemporary approaches to conversion foster the development of self-awareness rather than self-judging and introspection as the effectives means of bringing about healthy change.

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REMEMBRANCE AND HOPE

February 15, 2010

As we celebrate Ash Wednesday the liturgical formula from the Book of Genesis reverberates in our consciousness: “Remember that you are dust and unto dust you shall return.”  We begin this season of repentance and preparation with a suspension of our ordinary forgetfulness of our destiny.  We remember that we, as we take ourselves to be, come from the dust of the earth and are on our way to returning to that from which we came.  A most sobering recollection!  And yet, as we enter this Season of Lent 2010, there is also an invitation to know the profound consolation and the transcendent hope that a mindful living of these words affords us.

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ATTENDING TO WHAT IS WITHIN

February 8, 2010

     In iconic novels and plays, the American writer Thornton Wilder sought to pierce the veil of ordinary existence in order to reveal the miracle lying just beneath our gaze.  The spiritual for him was not some other, unlived life.  He believed that the transcendent manifested itself within our innate openness to reality even in the midst of our earthly pursuits.  Unfortunately, our awareness of the fuller dimensions of reality tends to remain pre-reflective, and we miss the wonder.  Hence, in “Our Town”, it is only after Emily has died in childbirth and “returns” to earth to relive a day of her early life—her twelfth birthday--that she realizes how much of her life she missed as she was going through it.  She suffers poignantly the fact that loved ones, occupied with duties of the moment, look past one another, not really seeing and responding to each other, missing opportunities for authentic encounter and understanding.  Watching herself relive these moments, she senses that the mostly hidden beauty of the world is almost too much to bear:  “Oh earth,” she exclaims, “you’re too wonderful for anyone to realize you!”  And then she implores, “Do any human beings realize life as they live it?”

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LISTENING TO TRANSCENDENCE

February 1, 2010

In last week’s reflection we spoke of the need for careful speech and thought. In our world, there is much talk and much debate about God and God’s existence.  Yet much of the “God-talk” between believers and non-believers, and even among believers themselves, occurs without the requisite presuppositions, in this case the presupposition of “purity of heart,” the human capacity to “listen to the voice of transcendence in immanence.”

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THINKING SPIRITUALLY

January 25, 2010

The great spiritual traditions of humanity are guides not only to belief but also for behavior.  They aim to elevate human life by presenting form ideals for integration into all spheres of human interaction.  Speaking, for example, a constant reality of everyday life, comes up for a great deal of comment in religious writings.  Confucius regarded sincerity in speech as a preeminent virtue.  He distrusted eloquence and glib talkers, and insisted that things be named properly. Better to be silent than to speak about what one doesn’t know or understand.  In Buddhism, the principle of Right Speech is a distinct part of the path to awakening.  Because words are so consequential, one is expected to learn the art of skillful communication, being mindful always of two questions about one’s speech:  Is it true?  Is it useful? 

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REFLECTIONS ON ORDINARY TIME

January 18, 2010

Liturgically speaking we have now left behind the special seasons of Advent and Christmas and re-entered “Ordinary Time.”  We have taken down our Christmas trees, removed our window lights, and unwrapped (and perhaps stored away) our presents.  All of the artificial light and constant celebration that, at least in the Northern Hemisphere, have relieved for some weeks the darkness and isolation of deepening winter have come to an end.  We now return to our daily lives and work, our separate and more solitary lives, and are again faced with the reality of our humdrum day-to-day existence.

 

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BECOMING GOD'S CHILD

January 11, 2010

The words still ring in my ears:  “Inevitably difficulties arise.  Crises will occur – as they must.”  These words, spoken by a graduate school teacher, impressed me by the quality of inwardness they expressed.  One sensed the weight of experience behind the articulation, and also that the speaker seemed to be speaking as much to herself as to her listeners, as if awakening to the significance of her words as they were being spoken.

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NEW YEAR'S REFLECTION

January 4, 2010

We enter this new year of 2010 out of our shared celebration of Christmas, of the startling belief that God’s desire for intimacy with humanity is greater than we could ever imagine.  “To all who received him, he gave the power to become children of God.”  (John 1, 12)  In his Christmas sermon, Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury, describes this Mystery as follows...

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